A relaxed Jennifer Lopez talks about ex-boyfriends, pressure, sheer will, and her idiot manager as she graces the cover of U.K. magazine Easy Living's September issue.

The 39-year-old Lopez, who has had high-profile relationships with Sean Combs and Ben Affleck before her marriage to singer Marc Anthony, says she doesn't want to talk about her ex-boyfriends "only because I think it's disrespectful to my husband." She adds that she also doesn't want him to talk about his ex-girlfriends.

The "Love Don't Cost A Thing" hitmaker also opened up about firing her former manager years ago for telling her to diet so she could look like Heather Locklear, simply saying, "He was an idiot."

J. Lo, who gave birth to twins Emme and Max in February, has something to say about pressure, saying she knows how uncomfortable and destructive life is.

She says, "It's a tricky thing - the tabloids know that a lot of people read them, and they gauge who's hot and who's not by who is on the cover."

"If that's what being hot right now is, I don't want to be that."

Lopez appears on the cover of Easy Living September issue, which hits newsstands this week.

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