Jennifer Lopez has opened up and revealed why she finds Marc Anthony attractive.

While many women, and men, have questioned how one of the most beautiful women in the world can wake up next to a ghost-like Anthony, J.Lo has told Harper's Bazaar magazine that it has nothing to do with his looks.

The Latin diva, who has been working closely with Anthony since they married in 2005, praised the calming effect her third marriage has had.

She said, "He makes me slow down and eat lunch, which I used not to do. We have different philosophies. I've been so disciplined. His process is 'Chill, don't kill yourself.' Maybe, I've got a martyr thing because I was raised Catholic. But with him I feel like I should relax and slow down. That's a first for me."

Lopez, who has been married to waiter Ojani Noa and dancer Chris Judd in the past, continued to talk about Anthony to Vanity Fair magazine.

She has been tight lipped on her relationship with the singer since her time with Ben Affleck, which resulted in media chaos surrounding the couple.

She continued to Italian Vanity Fair, "We aren't the type to separate our lives from our work. It's a synergy: music, cinema, the everyday things and most importantly, our love."

The actress-and-singer's private life has been well-documented and she has confirmed that she loves to love.

She said, "How do I love? With all of myself, passionately, without regard for the mistakes which one inevitably makes. Let me put it as I have in my song: 'Amo como una mujer, que vee en su hombre el paraiso (I love like a woman who sees heaven in her man).'"

And despite being panned for her apparent love of weddings, Lopez says she has no regrets.

She concluded, "I have no regrets, but these new experiences have transformed me. Today, I am trying to reach higher standards in my art. I won't settle for less. This applies to both music and cinema."

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